Halloween Tips to Be a Good Listener with People Who Are Deaf or Hard of Hearing
By Sara Baines-Miller | Posted on: October 9, 2024
Halloween is a fun time filled with costumes, decorations, and social gatherings. However, for individuals who are deaf or hard of hearing, the hustle and bustle of Halloween can sometimes create communication challenges. Whether you’re handing out candy, attending a Halloween party, or simply spending time with friends, being mindful of how you interact with people who are deaf or hard of hearing can make the experience more inclusive and enjoyable for everyone.
In this article, we’ll review some helpful tips for being a good listener and communicator this Halloween so you can celebrate with empathy and understanding.
- Make Eye Contact, Ghoul Friend
Always face the child and make direct eye contact to help them understand you better. - Light the Way, Like a Jack-o’-Lantern
Make sure your porch or entryway is well-lit, so the child can see your face clearly for lip-reading or facial expressions.
- Speak Slowly, Not Spooky
Speak at a natural, but slightly slower pace to ensure clarity without being exaggerated or scary. - No Mask, No Tricks
Avoid wearing masks or costumes that cover your mouth. Clear face shields are a better option to allow for lip-reading. - Wave Like a Witch
Use gentle hand waves or light gestures to get the child’s attention, rather than shouting or making sudden noises. - Spell It Out Like a Spell
Have a small notepad or your phone’s text feature ready if you need to write a message for better communication.
- Use Your Bat Signals
Pointing and simple hand signals can help convey your message, especially when offering choices like candy types. - Beware of Background Noises
Turn off loud Halloween sound effects or music so the environment isn’t too overwhelming for hearing aids or cochlear implants.
- Clear as a Crystal Ball
Speak clearly and avoid mumbling, ensuring your lips are visible and easy to follow. - The Magic of Repeating
If the child doesn’t understand you the first time, don’t be afraid to repeat yourself calmly and friendly. - Ghostly Gestures Are Great
To bridge communication gaps, use simple signs or gestures, like “Thank you” or “Happy Halloween. “ - No Tricks with Candy Choices
If offering a choice of candy, show the child the options by holding them up, so they can point to their favorite. - Lip-reading Is Like Summoning Spirits
Speak normally but clearly and remember to pause between sentences to give the child time to read your lips if needed. - Be Extra Sweet, No Hocus Pocus
Be patient and kind, just as you would with any child. Understanding may take a moment, but kindness lasts forever. - Monster Manners
If you’re unsure, it’s okay to ask the child or their guardian the best way to communicate—being considerate is the best treat of all!
These strategies help foster an inclusive and supportive listening environment, enabling children who are deaf or hard of hearing to participate fully in conversations, social activities, and learning experiences. Creating environments and situations where they feel valued and understood can empower these children to engage confidently, express themselves freely, and build meaningful connections.
Bonus Section – What’s the best candy to pass out to kids?
Now that you’re prepped and ready to communicate with a deaf or hard of hearing child, let’s move onto their favorite part…the candy! If you are on the fence about what to buy this Halloween, here’s a list of kid’s top favorites year after year!
- Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups
- M&M’s
- Snickers
- Skittles
- Sour Patch Kids
- Kit Kat
- Twix
- Starburst
- Hershey’s Bars
- Butterfinger
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